Monday, April 9, 2012

naming my Angel

I am feeling a lil conflicted..I miscarried at 7 weeks so I don't know the sex of my baby but I would like to give him/her a name, so I used the chinese birth calendar to see what it could have possibly been & it said girl which makes sense to me since I have carried 4 boys without problems including my rainbow..now my conflict..if it was a boy instead I don't want to give it a girl name & i don't want to say I lost a daughter & people be like I just wanted a girl so badly that I am just claiming to lose a girl. what would you do?

2 comments:

Shandrea said...

First I want to say that I am very sorry for your loss. As far as the naming I would say go with your heart. If you believe it was a girl then use a girl name. Take time and really search yourself. I believe if you do that then you will come up with something. ((HUGS))

Holly said...

I gave my baby I didn't know the gender to a gender neutral name. I feel like my baby would have been a boy after I named my baby but I'm still happy I chose a neutral one just in case I'm wrong.